Navigating the beautifully imperfect and deeply human experience of love.
And it starts with a deeper understanding of you.
For nearly three decades, I've helped people like you reconnect with what they want in love. Whether you’re in a decades-long partnership that’s lost its spark or rebuilding after heartbreak, change is always possible. The bravest thing you can do is ask: What is my part here, and how do I want to show up differently?
Truth + Dare: The Loving Bravely Challenge
READY TO GET CURIOUS?We all have a “signature move” in love — the way we show up when things are smooth and when they get bumpy. This quiz will reveal yours and give you a personalized Loving Bravely Challenge:
Your Truth: the self-awareness nugget you didn’t know you needed
Your Dare: a simple action that could change the vibe in your relationship today
All long-term relationships have ebbs and flows. Feeling stuck or stagnant doesn’t mean you’re doomed! It means you’re ready for a better way to navigate it. You can learn to make change feel less scary, develop a sense of earned security, and build the confidence you need to create a relationship you feel proud of. Where others try to help you find the right person, I help you be the right person (for yourself and for your relationship). Loving Bravely is about understanding your own patterns, reconnecting with what you actually value in your intimate partnership, and discovering how to show up in ways that shift everything.
When you start with you, the relationship transforms.
Reconnect with what you want and value in love
WHAT IS LOVING BRAVELY?Your Love Classroom
A Start-to-Finish Intensive Training Program with Dr. Alexandra. Become a certified couple therapist and be fully confident in your ability to work with couples and modern relationships. In partnership with Pesi. The next cohort begins Spring 2026.
COUPLE THERAPY CERTIFICATION
Manage anxiety and thrive no matter what life throws at you. Dr. Alexandra leads "In Practice," a new MasterClass series featuring insights from world-class experts in entertainment, politics, and business. Each episode serves as a survival kit for challenging seasons, when the world, your relationships, or your emotions are getting the best of you.
MASTERCLASS “IN PRACTICE”
A conversation about the relationships that matter most. Reimagining Love is your destination for profound, enlightening discussions about love, family, intimacy, and everything in between. A podcast that gives us the opportunity to reimagine ourselves, our relationships, and our world.
REIMAGINING LOVE PODCAST
The Loving Bravely Newsletter
If you’re feeling stuck or uncertain about your path in love, you’re exactly where I hope to meet you. Twice a month, I’ll send you expert guidance and thoughtful insights to help you turn inward and create a relationship that feels reciprocal, fulfilling, and aligned with your needs. It’s about expanding the possibilities with confidence, clarity, and hope — starting with you.
Hi, I’m Dr. Alexandra
I’m a therapist, teacher, author, and yes, an unapologetic love nerd. I’m the one on Northwestern University’s campus with the big curls, permanently holding a Starbucks cup in one hand and the latest relationship research in the other.
My work gives you both the emotional validation and concrete tools you need to create a relationship that feels alive and deeply yours.
E-COURSE: INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS 101Reimagine what’s possible for your intimate relationship.
The research is clear: our relationships are the biggest determinant of our happiness. Yet we’re never taught how to “do” them. Intimate Relationships 101 is the relationship education you always needed but never received. This comprehensive course will teach you the art and science of loving and being loved.