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Book Dr. Alexandra for your Business, Organization, Women’s Group, or University

Dr. Alexandra invites audiences to explore the complexities of modern relationships with curiosity and compassion. Through her Relational Self-Awareness (RSA) framework, she helps corporate, academic, military, and nonprofit audiences understand what's breaking down in their relationships– and empowers them with practical tools to build connections that support both individual and relational health and wellbeing. Drawing on her decades of clinical and academic experience, Dr. Alexandra delivers insights that are both research-grounded and immediately applicable. Whether presenting one of her signature talks or creating custom content, she tailors every presentation to address your audience's specific challenges and needs.

To book Dr. Alexandra contact Eleanor Imbody at Kaye Publicity, eleanor@kayepublicity.com

A Note About Clinical and Academic Audiences

Each talk can be positioned as scholarly or clinical education talks. In addition, Dr. Alexandra offers continuing education workshops on the following topics: Couples and infidelity; Relational Ambivalence; Supporting clients who are single, dating, and single again; Breakups and divorce; Assessment and Treatment of Couples Using the Relational Self-Awareness Framework.

Dr. Alexandra’s Talks

  • Research has identified that women in leadership experience a catch-22, feeling pressured to present as competent and strong while also conveying warmth and kindness. They also have to grapple with knowing when and how to make both personal and professional transitions while considering the impact those changes might have on their careers… and on their families. Dr. Alexandra helps women in business and leadership positions develop a curious relationship with their pasts, their tendencies, and relationship patterns so they can feel more grounded and wholehearted as leaders in the workplace and at home.

  • Couples often get trapped in a painful cycle in which one partner is asking for change while the other wants things to stay as they are. Dr. Alexandra uses the tools of Relational Self-Awareness to help you understand the individual and relational causes of this dynamic—and to chart a path from feeling stuck to becoming empowered. This path invites the ‘Change Partner' to discover the power of acceptance, and the 'Acceptance Partner' to explore what it means to grow in the name of love.

  • Each couple has a story. The family you grew up in and your previous relationship experiences come with you into your intimate partnership. Those stories shape the ways you communicate, make meaning, develop a sense of self, fight, caretake for your children and elderly loved ones, handle work stress, and discuss ambition and relationship milestones. In this talk, Dr. Alexandra Solomon will walk couples through identifying their family of origin roles, teach them how to map out their conflict cycle, and share intimacy promoting and connection deepening conversation starters and tips. This talk can be further tailored to explore specific domains like communication and conflict, parenting, midlife and empty-nesting, and the intersection of intimacy and ambition.

  • This talk explores how to navigate life transitions (the ones we plan for… and the ones we don’t!) with self-compassion and Relational Self-Awareness. Dr. Alexandra discusses the grief that accompanies change, how transitions impact our relationships, and the importance of tending to our inner critic during uncertain times. The presentation reframes transition as an opportunity for growth, encouraging participants to embrace new beginnings with curiosity rather than fear.

HERE IS WHAT FOLKS ARE SAYING

  • “I have observed many, many speakers and workshop leaders over my years at my organization, Omega Institute. I’m always on the lookout for presenters who combine useful knowledge and powerful communication skills with wit, warmth, authenticity and humility. A tall order! It’s always a thrill when I meet someone who has all the ingredients of a great teacher. Alexandra Solomon is one of them.”

    Elizabeth Lesser

    Bestselling author and co-founder of Omega Institute

  • “We have used Alexandra for a number of programs focusing on developing meaningful relationships, both personally and professionally. Our lawyers really enjoy her programs. Not only is Alexandra incredibly knowledgeable and passionate, she also is a talented presenter who connects with her audience, keeps them engaged, and offers practical tips. I can’t recommend working with her enough.”

    Erica Gholson, JD

    Associate Director of Professional Development, McDermott Will and Emery

  • "Alexandra Solomon’s speaking skills are that all-too-rare combination of deep knowledge, ease on stage, and relatability. She is skilled as both a solo presenter and in-conversation partner, and always arrives prepared and ready to connect with the audience. Alexandra is particularly notable for her deft ability to engage the audience on the topics of sex, love, and intimacy. Using humor and insight, she creates a warm learning environment that supports vulnerability and connection."

    Lonnie Stonitsch

    Family Action Network (FAN)

  • "Dr. Alexandra led a conversation on building loving and lasting relationships in the modern world. Specifically, with the rise of dual-income households, she shared her research and experience helping couples navigate challenging ambition decisions and career pressures. The insights and tools she shared are relevant to all students and young professionals: single, coupled (opposite-sex, same-sex), etc. Attendees walked away with important reframes of what traditionally invokes fear in relationships involving two ambitious individuals, evolving those dimensions into behaviors that instead foster love."

    Anna Radakrishnan

    Director of Personal Development - Women's Business Association / MD-MBA Candidate, Kellogg School of Management

  • "Dr. Alexandra expertly facilitated a series of emotionally candid conversations on racial discrimination within our organization. Her empathy and thought provoking exercises helped us identify biases we didn’t know we had, and more importantly, how to work towards overcoming them. The sessions with Dr. Alexandra, attended by thousands of our staff, jumpstarted our journey towards creating a more supportive and inclusive workplace culture. We look forward to working with Dr. Alexandra again!"

    Joan

    Director, Emerging Talent

  • "Alexandra Solomon is an essential voice in the areas of love, dating, sex, and relationships. She always brings a fresh, culturally relevant perspective that is unapologetic in its authenticity and yet engaging and approachable. Her workshops have become a staple of our annual symposium."

    Zachary Taylor, MA, LPC, NCC

    CEO Grief.com & David Kessler, Inc. Licensed Professional Counselor

To Book Dr. Alexandra Contact Eleanor Imbody at Kaye Publicity